Monday, June 21, 2010

Hello friends, family, fellow bloggers, and guests. My name is Diane Bradford, and this is my first blog. I've read tons of terrific blogs, so I'm determined to do mine justice. When I have more time--ha ha ha--I plan to improve the design and add a few pictures, but I have to admit the intimidation factor is high. I am SO not a techno geek. But as a writer of military romance chocked full of action and HEA (Happily Ever After for you non-writing folks) I have no choice but to jump in the freezing cold water with both feet--YIKES!--and get started.

I'm a wife to my dear husband of 35 years, a mother of two exceptionally wonderful children--no, I am SO not prejudiced--and a writer. Jaymi and Justin have left the nest and are married to people who are just as wonderful. And even better? They live close by. We get to enjoy lunch dates, movies, and time together whenever we can. No grandchildren yet, but I have hope.

I became a writer because I've always had a habit of changing plots, character traits, and endings of the books I read. My mom and I used to always share books and talk about them afterwards. She would always leave a little post-it note on the front with messages like, 'Good one!,' 'Don't pass this one up,' 'Wow!!!!,' Gotta read!,' and I would do the same. Even after I moved to North Carolina from Texas, we continued to haul sacks of books back and forth when they drove out here for visits. Was a little harder when I flew out there. During their first visit to North Carolina, Mom and I were discussing one of those books. I began my lengthy oratory on how the book should be this and that and what I would do to change it. Mom said, Diane, you need to write your own book. And so began my writing career. I'm just sorry my mom, God rest, won't be with me when I sell my first book.

My favorite joys (other than my family) have been reading and going to the movies for as long as I can remember. My reading and movie interests are very eclectic. Romance, of course, is at the top, but I also love mysteries, thrillers, espionage, and paranormal. When I get all of them in one book or movie, I'm a happy puppy. However--and this is key for me--all books and movies must conform to the following criteria:

Criteria #1 and most important: HEA (the happy-ever-after promise)
And here's why. After watching Million Dollar Baby a few years ago, I wanted to shoot myself, it was so depressing. But after watching Robin Hood with Russell Crow this weekend, oh man. Let's just say, my criteria list was fulfilled--big time. I definitely plan to see this one again. I felt the same about 3D Avatar, and yes, I went back and watched it a second time, too. If I know or even suspect that I'm not going to experience that HEA buzz, the movie is out. I refuse to waste my time and money. The same is true for the books I read. HEA is why I love the romance genre. And just so you know, for all you non-readers of romance, you're missing out on what makes the world tick. Romance books are no longer the silly bodice-rippers of the 70's, an image for which the genre sadly continues to pay the price. But that image no longer computes, folks. Romance books of today are about heroic men and women who face difficult challenges and impossible odds to find each other and fight for each other amid the chaos. Come on, take a chance. Try one on for size. I promise I won't tell. And for all you guys out there rolling your eyes, snickering, and turning up your nose, if you want to know what a woman wants in a man, what she finds sexy, what turns her on, read a romance novel. If you need action, then a romantic suspense is a sure bet. Trust me, you won't regret it. Oh, for crying out loud, rip the cover off, if your rep can't handle it, but take advantage of a perfect opportunity. If you absolutely cannot face being seen in the romance section of the bookstore, then order one online.

Criteria #2: Good MUST win over evil.
The bad guy has to go, people. And by whose hand? Why, the hero's, of course, whether that hero is the hero or the heroine. This criteria is one reason I tend to avoid horror flicks. It's also the reason I gravitate toward action movies, even in my reading choices. If I have to choose between a romantic comedy or an action flick, I'll go for Bruce Willis every time. I mean, come on--there's nothing more satisfying than a hunky-hot Matt Damon as Jason Bourne taking it to the bad guy (or in Jason Bourne's case lots of bad guys) and beating them. Now, if I get romance in the bargain, again, I'm a happy puppy.

Criteria #3: A feel-good ending.
Now, this one is a little subjective, even for me. No matter what, the hero and the heroine MUST be happy and fulfilled at the end. In romance, the ending is always HEA, meaning the two main characters are together and plan to stay together through eternity, no matter what--you know what I mean. If I read the book to the last page or sit through an entire movie expecting my HEA but don't get it. Look out. UNhappy puppy doesn't even come close. I'm either looking for a match or a brick. Although I require action-filled books and movies to fulfill the same criteria, man and woman don't have to end up together, but that possibility must linger in the looks between them. Or if there are no romance involved, I get my feel-good ending when the good guy whips the bad guy's butt and saves the world or rescues the innocent. A couple of my examples are Gladiator with Russell Crow--he was eternally in love with his wife (I won't say more in case you want to watch the movie), and Tears of the Sun with Bruce Willis. This one was a total Navy SEAL action flick, but he and woman he rescued shared That Look at the end, plus, even though some of his men died as heroes, they fulfilled their mission, rescued the girl, and kicked the enemies butt. The idea for my WIP (work-in-progress, or the current manuscript I'm working on, for all you non-writers) was born when I saw Tears of the Sun.

Criteria #4: Heroes have to be heroic. I'll talk more about this one on my next post. Hope you join me.


  1. Welcome to the world of blogging, Diane! I think you chose a good platform to start off with--Blogger is pretty intuitive and easy to modify without a lot of knowledge about HTML and design.

    Love your criteria-- I agree with those, too! Looking forward to your next one on heroes.

  2. I am happy you have taken the plunge. Play with the 'gadgets' on your site. My site, is also this brand, so see what I have and I can give you pointers anytime. Good luck!

  3. Welcome to the blogosphere, Diane!

    Great start. I want to see pics of your shining face next time! And maybe a pic of SEAL or twelve.


  4. Great first blog, D! And I so agree with your criteria for a good book.

  5. You guys are great! Thanks for leaving my first comments.

  6. Nicely done, Diane. And I'm right there with you on the criteria. I read fiction mostly for entertainment and those are my requirements for the kind of books I want as well.

  7. Wonderful post, Diane!

    People who roll their eyes at romance have no idea what one actually reads like. I am a HEA junky as well, and have been ever since reading The Outsiders in middle school and feeling dreary and depressed for days. Why on earth would anyone choice to feel that way after reading—an activity that is supposed to be an escape!

    Looking forward to reading more :)

  8. Terrific blog, Diane! And yes, I agree on your points. A book can have an ending that's up in the air if it's part of a series and I know things are yet to be resolved.

    Any more I think the "heroes should be heroic" and HEA requirements are why I'm drawing away from comic books. Heroes there aren't so heroic. Often the bad guy wins. This is entertainment? Not for me!

    Will be coming back for more! In the meantime you can go over to my blog at and waste some time.

  9. Hi Diane
    Great blog, good for you. I need to do something with mine. You insprie me to do that.


  10. LOL, Jo! Golly, I never thought of myself as inspiring. Thanks for the vote of confidence.

  11. Hey, Carol. Thanks. You know, I've never read comics. I really like some of the movies of the comic characters, though. Love all the X-Men. Great heroes there.

  12. Erin, Karen and Kitty, thanks for dropping by. I'm thrilled that you guys liked my first one. I'm trying to get to my hero blog, but all this social networking is like a time vaccuum.